I often hear the comparison of an amorous relationship to a job: it’s work. And with your dream career or any job you want to keep, you show up, do your best and get rewarded with money, health benefits, PTO, accolades, experiences, a 401k, a corner office, a growing salary, etc. And if you’re really […]Read more "Why You Should Date Someone Who Scares the S*** Out of You, A List — Shan Tell’em"
You hold in you a great power, one you probably didn’t even know you had. Many of us are unaware of the greatness we harbor in the corners of our existence. This power can lay hidden and unused until one day you are rummaging in your tool box and you find it. It was always […] […]Read more "week 13: Disengage (a repost)"
If you aren’t pocketing a little change from every conversation into some part of your life, you’re investing in the wrong conversations. -unknownRead more "week 12: pocket change"
Remind your daughters that they are more than their physical traits. (their breasts, curves and their thighs). yes, you are beautiful, but that’s not enough to pay your bills. to put food on the table. you are not a one night stand to soak all your sugar and honey for every man that passes by […]Read more
Pro-tip: Don’t let the toxic mixture of fear and laziness fuck with your goals, ambition and productivity. -unknown photo credit; no copyright infringement intendedRead more "week 11"
The walk from my apartment in Washington Heights to my junior high school was no longer than 15 minutes. Yet, every morning I would have to go to the building across from me and wait for this tardy girl so that I could walk to school with her. I don’t remember having any conversations with […] […]Read more "The Power of Resting Bitch Face (a reblog)"