I’m getting… old?

Hence this post’s title: Last week, I called a gal pal for her birthday and we had a laugh about how shitty it was growing up with a birthday overshadowed by two of the, if not THE biggest holidays celebrated in the U.S.. maybe even the world. My family was notorious for combined gifts and empty promises […]

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week 43|2017

Explain your anger instead of just expressing it and you will find solutions instead of arguments. -unknown True enough, but.. Remember as a kid your parents and teachers used to ask what’s wrong? when you were hollering and crying and carrying on? Until a certain age, they didn’t usually counter with anger, frustration or annoyance. […]

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Men, Who Hurt You? (a repost)

What’s a complaint without a solution, right? Please read the linked post in its entirety. (It’s a quick read.) We can discuss here as well, but please be sure to like and comment and give The Single B Diaries some love, too. Happy Monday! P.S. Black men, I LOVE ya’ll! xo ❤ Disclaimer: This post […]

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week 29|2017

Being a small business owner-well, just dealing with other humans in general, I encounter a fair amount of nonsense. Some potential customers will give us the runaround for weeks then fall off the earth. (We should start charging for consultations, uh?) A stranger rear-ends you and tells you why they couldn’t avoid hitting you, how […]

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Who is the nigger?

Now here in this country, we’ve got something called a nigger.. We have invented the nigger. I didn’t event him. White people invented him. I’ve always known, I had to know by the time I was 17 years old, What you were describing was not me, And what you were afraid of was not me […]

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